I am off to go deconstruct a dick- among other things a female would deconstruct, when she is in the business of academia.Here I am not buying into to the social constructs that entails gender, but rather facing up to the reality of what we do as academics- we problematize everything.

What does a woman wants- Sex, to be desired, companionship, money/fame,a white picket fence,guess it is something men ask all of the time and for a woman, a question-the answer layered with contraditions. read more in my book -What a woman wants- as one woman, finds herself in all the seemly in between spaces- only to find that what she wants is just that one thing- most times we take for granted.

live life so that when you are no more- you can still live through the stories they tell.